The tag 'Daddy's girl' comes so easily even from strangers, when all they do is just see father daughter bonding. But it is not an easy task. Daddy dearest has to put in so much more effort in being her princess' favorite. They say Moms are special by birth because they have the privilege of being with the angel for 9 months more than anyone else. Because they share an intimate and sacred relation with the child by breastfeeding. Mom is the smell child recognize even before he/she knows what 'smell' means. But, in this mommy-girly duo, dad struggles to make an extra effort at everything in life. Work accepts no excuse of being less attentive. So, after day full of tiresome work, coming home to a wife who has mood swings which she can easily blame to n number of changes her body has undergone since conception, absorbing all the negativities, giving her 'WE' time, respecting her need for 'ME' time by taking care of the baby and household chores. Then, squeezing a little daddy time without disturbing the baby's sleep-feed schedule leaves the strongest pillar with no strength for his own 'ME' time. His day ends with an alert sleep to be there if the mommy baby needs a thing. A new day begins with no regrets, dad is ready to face it strong.
Due to work, dad can give his time to the little one like a routine way. Slowly the baby starts expecting his stronger pillar same time each day, a little later than the usual time makes her uncomfortable as if she knows how to worry. But, a little earlier than the regular time is a delight even for the little eyes. This delight assures him of his importance in the little one's life. And this is what gives him energy to carry on, to make an extra effort every day. Within no time he secures a special place in the tiny heart, a place where only daddy resides. A dad's heart is all for the little girl he fathered, but to gain that special place in her heart is a task which gives her a tag ' Daddy's girl'.. while dad still is just a dad :)
I love my husband for being a dad!
Due to work, dad can give his time to the little one like a routine way. Slowly the baby starts expecting his stronger pillar same time each day, a little later than the usual time makes her uncomfortable as if she knows how to worry. But, a little earlier than the regular time is a delight even for the little eyes. This delight assures him of his importance in the little one's life. And this is what gives him energy to carry on, to make an extra effort every day. Within no time he secures a special place in the tiny heart, a place where only daddy resides. A dad's heart is all for the little girl he fathered, but to gain that special place in her heart is a task which gives her a tag ' Daddy's girl'.. while dad still is just a dad :)
I love my husband for being a dad!
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